This is a great question. I'd be curious how others get support from others that give them what they need since we were so deprived of love as children.

I have actually been spending time with older female figures in my life that provide a comfort so I can heal. It has been really effective. I take care of everyone and am very independent so it’s difficult to receive that kind of support. Like I’m afraid of it or I don’t want to get use to it. I highly recommend it though it’s a short term freely given honest care that really helps. I’m finding I don’t know how to show my appreciation though like I’m not responding properly. I don’t know the right way to react to like a hug or a loving comment or genuine interest in me. It’s so strange.