How Do You Tell Someone The Words They Said Hurt You?
How do you let them know without getting all emotional 😠without looking like a baby. It's very vulnerable to open up and let someone know how their words made you feel but I want to stand my ground and be understood not pitied.
She's just giving Steph a suggestion as to how to respond when someone says something hurtful.
Just tell them. You did nothing wrong. They did. Do NOT let them pit it back on you!!
I simply say : " That hurt my feelings. "
Thanks everyone I talked to my mom over the phone and I did cry but it wasn't horrible she understood and apologized and even said if someone had said those things to her she would have been hurt too.
@A MyDepressionTeam Member
Thank you for your caring heart, Joyce. I was just giving Steph an example of how you could let someone know they were hurting your feelings.
Thanks hon,
have a FANTABULOUS DAY!!!
Francesca
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